Orgasm is Not the Goal

What if I asked you: What is the goal of sex?  Most people would assume the answer is to orgasm. It’s time we break that cycle.  Somewhere along the way, sex became a race to the finish line. We have been taught to measure the “success” of sex by whether or not we (and our partner) orgasm. While orgasms can absolutely be amazing, making…

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Getting Tied Up (consensually): BDSM vs Abuse 

Kink, or kinky sex, is considered anything sexually nontraditional. We would never yuck someone else’s yum (and we hope you wouldn’t either) – as long as the sex is consensual (and pleasurable!), we’re all for it!  BDSM is a type of kink; but there’s a very big difference between BDSM and abuse, and being kinky doesn’t obligate you to doing anything you don’t want…

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Hot Reads for Hot Days: Books to Empower, Entertain, and Enlighten this Summer

Summer is (finally!) here! Whether you're lounging in the sun, traveling to a dreamy destination, or enjoying the A/C indoors, there's nothing like getting lost in a good book. We’re mixing up your summer reading list, EngErotics style. Each of us on the team picked a personal favorite book — and one play! — with each recommendation rich in complexity, layers, and sure to…

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Introducing Thoughts & Prayers: The Plug Set You Didn’t Know You Needed (But Definitely Deserve)

Let’s be honest: how many times have you heard the phrase “thoughts and prayers” and just... sighed? We get it. That well-worn line has become the default response to so many preventable tragedies, and frankly, it’s worn out its welcome. So here at EngErotics, we decided to do something about it. And by “do something,” we mean create a high-quality anal plug set that…

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Permission to Feel Good: The Power of Pleasure

When we talk about self-care, we often imagine green juices, yoga flows, eight hours of sleep, and maybe even a journal you barely touch. And don’t get me wrong, all of that can help. But what we often skip over is something far more personal and, honestly, way more fun: pleasure. Real, embodied, delicious pleasure. Whether it’s through sexual self-pleasure, a slow morning in…

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Spring 2025: A Letter from Our CEO

To Our Beloved Community: As you already know, we’re living in a time of great uncertainty. In addition to the fluctuating tariffs, shifting policies, and emotionally heavy news headlines, so many of us are concerned with figuring out how to navigate our usual, everyday routines in a landscape that lacks consistency and emotional safety. Simply existing feels like a huge endeavor during this time.…

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