In our last blog, we discussed how pleasure, intimacy, and sex are intertwined, yet different. While they’re often used interchangeably, they’re actually three distinct experiences that can exist together - or completely on their own. Now, we want to use that information to see how those concepts evolve over time through the different life stages. Pleasure, intimacy, and sex are not static experiences. Think…
We talk a lot about intimacy, pleasure, and sex - and while they may seem like the same thing, we want to expand on how each of them are different. They overlap and influence each other, but each one speaks to a different part of the human experience. A helpful way to think about it is this: Pleasure = How it feels in the…
A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Play We all have sexual fantasies, and that's part of the fun. Curiosity around anal play is completely normal, and far more common than most people realize. The anus is filled with nerve endings - and that’s what makes it pleasurable for many people, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. Anal play (also called butt play or booty play)…
These are two milestones in one’s life, but they are not synonymous and they actually may be more different than you think. Let's talk about it - without shame or embarrassment. Perimenopause and menopause are natural parts of life, yet it’s a conversation that’s rarely talked about - many people reach this stage feeling completely unprepared for the changes that come with it. From…
Hygge is a Danish term and it doesn’t exactly translate into the English language, but it’s often used to describe feelings of coziness, warmth, and a sense of calming comfort. It’s less about what you’re doing and more about how it makes you feel - a long exhale that relaxes your shoulders, a sense of ease, a moment that invites you to slow down…
To start off the new year, the EngErotics team is letting go of what no longer serves us. For me, that means releasing patterns, thoughts, and beliefs that keep me overthinking - such as the self-inflicted expectations that create unnecessary pressure, and the ways I’ve measured my worth by what I accomplish rather than by who I am. In 2026, I am letting go…
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