Orgasm is Not the Goal

What if I asked you: What is the goal of sex?  Most people would assume the answer is to orgasm. It’s time we break that cycle.  Somewhere along the way, sex became a race to the finish line. We have been taught to measure the “success” of sex by whether or not we (and our partner) orgasm. While orgasms can absolutely be amazing, making…

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Getting Tied Up (consensually): BDSM vs Abuse 

Kink, or kinky sex, is considered anything sexually nontraditional. We would never yuck someone else’s yum (and we hope you wouldn’t either) – as long as the sex is consensual (and pleasurable!), we’re all for it!  BDSM is a type of kink; but there’s a very big difference between BDSM and abuse, and being kinky doesn’t obligate you to doing anything you don’t want…

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Hot Reads for Hot Days: Books to Empower, Entertain, and Enlighten this Summer

Summer is (finally!) here! Whether you're lounging in the sun, traveling to a dreamy destination, or enjoying the A/C indoors, there's nothing like getting lost in a good book. We’re mixing up your summer reading list, EngErotics style. Each of us on the team picked a personal favorite book — and one play! — with each recommendation rich in complexity, layers, and sure to…

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10 Sex Myths We’re Done Falling For

Ah, April. The sun is shining, the weather feels warmer, pranksters run wild, and even the most ridiculous rumors sound (almost) believable. But while harmless jokes are part of the fun, there are some myths out there that really need to be retired - especially when it comes to sex, sexuality, and sexual health. This month, let’s bust some popular sex myths that have…

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Back to Basics: A Guide to Consent, Pleasure, and Orgasms

In a world filled with misinformation, unrealistic media portrayals, and taboo discussions surrounding intimacy, it’s time to go back to the basics. Understanding the fundamentals of consent, pleasure, and your sexual self can lead to a more fulfilling and confident experience in your life.  What does sex mean to you? While sex has been an evolutionary requirement, ironically, the concept of sex has many…

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Intimacy is More Than Sex 

Intimacy can be found in almost every relationship. A common misconception is that intimacy equates to romance or sexual feelings.  Intimacy is defined as “close familiarity or friendship; closeness.”  Intimacy is found in various relationships and is not limited to romantic or sexual intentions.  Whether it’s your partner, parent, friend, or colleague, intimacy can exist in just about every healthy relationship you have in…

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